Not as much as I’d hoped, I’m afraid. Busy with life, but not really getting out lately. I went to the GEAR mixer a couple of weeks ago; it’s their monthly meeting and I had not been there in a while. It’s at The Bronx in the gayborhood, which is always a nice place to go to. Unfortunately the turnout was a bit light-about ten people, and there really wasn’t a meeting as such. I did get to chat with some people I didn’t know, and afterward was introduced to Red Mango yogurt. It’s like Pinkberry but I think it tastes better. A very short evening…
The Dallas Fetish Ball at The Church was a week ago. And as always, it’s a mixed bag. I did find out that if you show up early-like when the doors open-you have a few hours before the place gets so crowded you can’t see anything or move around. Between 10:30 PM-12:30 AM it’s so packed you just kind of flow with the traffic inside. You’ll be able to talk to people, see the outfits and enjoy things. I hate the fact that the “dress code” is very loosely interpreted. They don’t bother to enforce it, so the crowd ends up with a mix of people who actually make an effort and the jeans/trainers/polo shirt crowd who look out of place. And to me it affects the whole mood.
I did meet some new people, which was great. But a friend had a bad experience at a nearby hotel. She’d parked in the garage and came back late Friday night-and was harassed by some homophobes. Fortunately she wasn’t alone, but it was her first experience with being in real physical danger. I can totally understand how she felt, but I also think that you have to remember that when you are dressed en femme you need to think like a woman and take the same kinds of precautions.